5大迹象证明你已经找到你的TA

A really smart, well-developed people will never insist that they are always right. They won’t try to convince that they are right. Why would someone try to force their own views on you from the moment they see you, unless they had a low opinion of you?

一个真正聪慧和成熟的人从不会坚称他们自己总是正确的。他们不会试图说服你他们是正确的。除非是他们对你有所成见，否则怎么会有人从一见到你开始就试图将他们自己的观点强加与你呢？

You feel that you have a special place in their life, and that alone feels pretty amazing!

你感觉到你在他们的生命中占据着一个特别的位置，而单单这一定就令人万分惊喜了!

No. 4: Every time you learn something new about them, it makes you happy

第四：你会为每一次发现对方新的一面而感到开心。

They don’t have to do all kinds of sports or write theater plays in order to keep you interested. For no apparent reason, every day reveals something fresh about them, and you understand that their potential is inexhaustible.

他们不需要为了保持你对他们的兴趣而成为体育全才或是创作剧本。每一天，并非有什么明显的理由，却都会看到他们新鲜的一面，而且你知道他们的潜力无限。

This is more than just ’not being boring’. They grew this wonderful garden in themselves where you find yourself to be a welcome guest. This garden opens its doors to you. You come in and receive such happiness from its aromas, and can walk around all day and never feel bored or sad.

这不仅仅是“不感到厌倦”。他们在心中打造了这样一个美丽的花园，在那里你发现自己就是那位受到了热烈欢迎的拜访者。这座花园为你敞开大门。你迈进花园，在它的芬芳中嗅到了一丝甜蜜，你可以在其中漫步一整天都不感到厌倦或是忧伤。

No. 5: You are separate, yet you become whole. You accept them as they are because you really want to be with them

第五：你们是分开的，但是你们合为了一体。你接受他们做他们自己，因为你真的想要和他们在一起。

You feel that at some point in your relationship you have become one. But this effect doesn’t really make sense: they are still by any measure an individual with their own thoughts and personality traits.

你感觉在恋爱中，有时候你们已经合二为一了。但是这个现象并不是特别能说得通：无论怎么说，他们依旧是一个拥有自己想法与性格特点的个体。

You don’t agree on various matters, it’s not just a reason to fight, it’s also a chance for compromise. They are a continuation of you, through which you will discover your whole self for the rest of your life. They are infinite. You are falling in love not just momentarily but year after year, day after day.

在许多事情上你们意见不统一，而这不仅是一个争吵的理由，它也是一个妥协的机会。他们是你生命的扩延，通过他们，你会在你接下来的生命中发现全部的你自己。他们的爱是无限永恒的，你们并不只是在此刻相爱，而是彼此相爱，日复一日，年复一年。