5大迹象证明你已经找到你的TA

They say it’s not about hormones, it’s about feelings. Like a key that finally fits in the lock of your heart, perfectly, without having to be forced in any way. Your personalities, your souls, simply match.

人们说这并不是因为荷尔蒙作怪，而是因为感觉。像是一把钥匙终于插在了你的心锁上，完美无缺，无需一丝强迫之意。你们的性格和灵魂都是那么的匹配。

At the end of the day, we don’t find individuals exciting only because of the way they look or act. It’s all about their presence, which promises bliss every second you spend with them.

在一天结束的时候，我们不会仅仅为了一个人的外表和行为而感到激动兴奋。是他们的存在使得你与之一起度过的每一秒钟都是幸福的。

You wonder what they will look like when it’s just the two of you, alone. You want them to feel amazed and exhilarated to be with you. You want to have the force of a natural disaster on their life — a vortex, a storm of emotions; you want to be a force they can’t resist.

你想知道当就只有你们两个人单独在一起时，他们看起来会是什么样子的。你希望他们和你在一起时是惊喜和兴奋的。你希望给他们的生活带来一场“自然灾害”----一场情感的漩涡和暴风雨，你想要成为一股他们所抵挡不了的力量。

No. 2: You never get tired or bored of them

第二：和他们在一起时你从不感到疲惫或厌烦

A husband or wife is not just a lover. They are the person you see 24 hours a day. Whether you’re healthy or sick, dressed up nicely or hanging around the house in your underwear, feeling inspired or bored — your partner will accept you regardless.

丈夫或妻子不仅仅是恋人。他们是你24小时都面对的人。无论你是健康还是生了病，梳妆打扮好或是穿着内衣在屋里走来走去，灵感大发或是觉得无聊厌倦----你的另一半都会不顾一切得接受你。

You can spend six, seven, eight hours together, and still don’t want to say goodbye to each other, whilst with anyone else you wanted to bid farewell and spend some time alone. That feeling of not wanting to leave them happens not because you need something from them, but because you can live in perfect harmony together.

你们能在一起呆上六七八个小时，但依旧不想对彼此说再见，但是和别人在一起时你却想要先告辞，然后自己一个人呆着。在心里产生这种依依不舍之情并不是因为你需要从对方身上得到什么，而是因为你们的相处完美而和谐。

No. 3: They don’t put pressure on you

第三：他们不会给你压力。

They give you freedom, and you understand that’s what they’ve always done for you. You understand that they’re a mature person regardless of how old they are. They’re able to find happiness on their own, inside themselves. You’re a person that they respect. If one person respects another, this is it. This is the foundation for the perfect future together.

他们会给予你自由，而且你明白他们始终都是如此。你知道，无论他们是多大年纪，他们都是一个成熟的人。他们能在自己内心中寻求到快乐。你是一个他们尊重的人。如果一个人尊重另一个人，就会这么做。这是你们拥有一个共同的完美未来的基础。

If they’re capable of switching from being nice and tender with you to screaming and hissing at the waitress asking for a clean tablecloth, you should be aware that they will do the same to you when they aren’t satisfied with something in the future. It’s too early to talk about marriage or spending the rest of your lives together. Buttheir personality will let you down in the first couple of hours.

如果，他们能从对待你亲切温柔，切换到向服务生要擦桌子布时大喊大叫和发出嘘声，你应当意识到在以后，当他们有什么不满时也会这么对待你。现在讨论结婚或是一起共度余生还为时尚早，但是在初次相见的几个小时里，他们的人品就会令你失望。